The New World: Some Resources

When I wrote my most recent Kickstarter update I was slightly horrified to realize I… missed blogging? Except blogging doesn’t quite feel like the same thing as whatever that was. Maybe I ought to start a newsletter, Kelly Sue style. In the meantime:

While we’re all stuck indoors and dealing with it variably, here are some of the things I’ve been using to stay (relatively) healthy.

Meditation

As you may already know I am a member of the Open Heart Project. It’s had me meditating regularly for the last 4 years (or more? perhaps 5?). It’s free to join.

More importantly, during the Crisis, Susan Piver has been setting up four daily free meditation sessions, by a variety of teachers. They are at 9, 12, 3 and 6 (EST), and the 3pm one is always in Spanish. You can find more details, including the Zoom link, here.

Writing

Further to the above, I did an all-day writing/meditation workshop with Susan a few months ago. It has genuinely changed my writing practice, possibly forever. I don’t use the full technique every time I write, but I have been doing it at least once a week, and I am now about 5/6ths of the way through a major project that has been in the back of my mind for years.

And there is a sort of delight in that writing that hasn’t really been part of my writing experience till now. It’s fun to write something just for the love of the game, I think; and to get out of my head, particularly, right now.

Additionally to this (or sometimes directly related to it), I’m writing in my journal at least twice a day. A lot of it is just free-writing. I think it is either going to be fascinating (or horrible) to revisit once this is all over. If you aren’t journalling, this could be an all-time-great time to start.

I think my point is: write if you can. It’s not even something I can directly call therapeutic; but it’s working wonders on me. Perhaps it will for you, too.

Cooking

You want recipes? I got recipes.

Yoga

Arguably the best thing about having a well-established home practice, for the last several years, was not needing to make any adjustments at all when the Plague overtook the planet.

  • Yoga With Adriene, of course, remains the center of my practice. I’m a member, but there are tons and tons of free videos (as I proved for the first couple of years of doing this).
  • My Toronto yoga instructor, Joanne, has also gone online with a few brief videos. They delightfully capture enough of her personality to make me feel like I’m over at the Big Stretch.

Matt’s rules for working from home

(from twitter)

  1. Your hours are your hours. Log in at 9 and off at 5. Don’t start early just cuz there’s nothing to do, and don’t stay late just cuz “it’s there.” This discipline will really matter in the long run.
  2. Sure, eat lunch at your desk; but go for a walk for half an hour after. Do not approach the people. They have germs.
  3. Try not to nap but if you DO nap adjust your hours (1/) above. Again: the discipline matters.
  4. Are you drinking water, hon? Oh yeah? How much?
  5. If a conference call is audible chaos and you’re just g-chatting everyone you REALLY need to meet with, then guess what: you don’t need to be on the conference call. Hang up. This is extra-funny if your conference bridge is set up to announce departures.
  6. The pressure to virtually “show face” may feel enormous, but remember that if you become an insta-email responder now, you may have to stay one forever.
  7. Have a bit more water hon.
  8. Even more than usually: do not check (work) email after hours. If you can swing it, try unplugging completely for at least the first hour after work. So many books on your “to-read” shelf, amirite?
  9. Oh, and seriously good tip generally: no smartphones, laptops or tablets in the bedroom. Ever. You’ll sleep better.